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Mad Hatter Birthday Party

This year my daughter turned 4 and wanted to have a tea party themed birthday, so naturally, we planned a Mad Hatter Tea Party. We have watched the cartoon version of Disney’s Alice in Wonderland quite a few times together, and she thinks the tea party scene is so funny. Staying true to my non-character style, we went for more of a Wonderland inspired party. My daughter loved it and is already throwing out party ideas for next year.

Moms of Tulsa Mad Hatter Tea PartyThe decor was all over the place (just like a Mad Hatter Tea Party should be) and seriously, so fun to put together. If you haven’t watched the movie in a while, you should; you will be surprised at what your adult eyes see. I knew I wanted to incorporate a lot of flowers, clocks, teapots and teacups… the more the merrier!  My sister had a few teapots and teacups on hand and I found a few at thrift shops, vintage shops, etc. – when I saw them at a decent price, I would snag them. In my opinion, you can never have enough vintage teapots.  Not only are they fun for tea parties at home, they make beautiful vases for future use. Candelabras were placed on milk glass cake stands with small teacups tied to them and small, floral cake plates were placed on the top of each candelabra. It created a really fun and quaint feel.

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Moms of Tulsa Mad Hatter Birthday Party 8Moms of Tulsa Mad Hatter Birthday Party 5The topsy-turvey, naked, floral, three-tiered cake was such a great element. We served a white sangria for the adults and had juice boxes, tea and water for the kids. I had another custom chalk art sign for the drink table. Oh, how I loved those signs. For this party, I served Chick-Fil-A nuggets, fruit, and chips. I tried to keep it simple and served all things that my little one loves!

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Moms of Tulsa Mad Hatter Birthday Party 1We finished out the party with a pinata and blow-up slides for all the children to enjoy. Ainsley had a wonderful time and really loved her party. I loved styling this party and seeing her face light up with joy; she is the sweetest, kindest little lady around and I can’t believe she is four years old!
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Styling + Event Planning : Ally Hess

Cookies : Candace Cookies

Cake : Elaine Lloyd

Custom Chalk Art : Peacocks and Peonies

Flowers : Whole Foods Tulsa | Sam’s Club

Blow-up Slides & Obstacle Course : SportSide Entertainment

Friendly Mama PSA: Party planning is something I enjoy very much, however I would never cast judgement on anyone who chooses to do things different when it comes to parties, holidays, etc. This is what works for our family and it’s something I love to do. I love the support from this community because in reality we all get to choose what works best for our families. Cheers, y’all!

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Ally is a mom to a darling little girl and an (almost) wife to her fiancé of 8 years. She is nestled in the Oklahoma suburbs with a wonderful family and amazing friends. She loves to do fun activities with her daughter, sisters and 3 nieces. She’s a fan of reading blogs, reality TV, a good checklist, toddler fashion, baby giggles, nice handwriting and a good girl’s night. One of her favorite things is to party plan. Because let’s face it, everyone loves a good party! Connect with Ally here: PinterestInstagram